Father’s/Men’s Rights Movement vs. Feminism and Redistribution of Wealth

Polarizing any sect of people, creates conflict needed to redistribute a person or family’s wealth. (Hegalian Diaclectic)

There are various ways in which to get here, two of the current tactics is Men’s Rights/Father’s rights, and the Feminist movement of today.

When specializing one gender over another, this is pitting both genders against each other, capitulating this experience, one must promise protection from real or imagined threats, while constantly fear mongering the other gender.  Giving up of such “trinkets” creates entitlement for the specialized gender, and a scapegoat of the other.  This conflict that is created generates massive revenue.

Prior to divorce, a family as a whole usually has many assets that are quickly redistributed upon the breakdown of the marriage.  Both parties are taught to hate each other, one is specialized, and taught entitlement while the other (usually the wage earner) pays for this.  Both parties are taught that they must have representation via an attorney first and foremost, as this is where the majority of the redistributed wealth will ultimately go.  Adding in the court costs, time allowed, the longer this is drawn out the, the more money gets redistributed to others.  Divorcing couples with children, will usually not have an estate to actually leave to the children, nor will they have money for the future like college savings, 401k plans, any type of retirement income, and to insure this process is not retarded in any way, children must be required to be raised by a single parent (most states have an eighty day rule, meaning the primary parent will have the child the majority of the year, whilst the other parent is given a standard eighty days parenting time)…usually promoting fatherless children, which continues the cyclical pattern of “production”…sometimes there will be adult children of such breakups that will be wage earners, however the majority of the time these adults will generate loads of revenue to the state via criminalization, single parenting, and a myriad of other issues.

At the outset of a petition for divorce, both parties would like shared custody of the children, it is actually rare for a father to abandon the family.  The media helps propogate the myths and lies, detailing that fathers are absent by choice.

The female parent being taught entitlement already is used as a tool to create this revenue.

The parents are told they do not have to get along, they are told that there should be blame, even if both simply fell out of love.  The children become pawns, not only by the entitled parent, but by the state.

Because of the animosity created these children may or may not need counseling (paid for by the wage earner)…one parent may make false claims of abuse, which involves child protection (paid for by the wage earner), Guardian ad Litems (paid for by the wage earner), Home Studies are done (paid for by the wage earner)…Civilly the falsely accused may be ordered anger management, and supervised visitation of the children (paid for by the wage earner)…

Which in a nutshell is redistributing that families’ wealth.

At the outset of the divorce, neither party will have anything of value, conflict is created because of this as they blame each other, the children fall through the cracks, and now without the family assets, they will usually not go to college, they will be stuck in a cyclical pattern of poverty, and even if they do become “productive” depending on which gender they are, this cycle will be recreated in their adulthood.

We must all realize that we are being parented by a state, stop hating each other, study the truth and realize that we can make changes, simply by not allowing ourselves to be polarized.

Bring back the community…we are living in such a secular society that even though this is and has been happening for over forty years, everyone is taught it is not their business, that they should not interfere…creating not only secularism but such individualistic, and selfish beliefs that even when realization is created, it is ignored.  Fear also plays a part in everything these days, and we must get over it in order to save humanity, today.

Redistribution of Wealth

Have you been a victim of a state system designed to redistribute your wealth via any means?

June is Domestic Violence Against Men Awareness Month

I was going to write about the double standards employed in Domestic Violence Shelters.  

I was going to write about the double standards when it comes to criminalizing female perpetrators of domestic violence, versus criminalization of male perpetrated domestic violence.  

I was going to write about the imbalance of custody cases, and the double standards employed in family courts giving abusive mothers full custody over non-abusive fathers, based on false allegations and “he said she said.”  

 I am not going to.  

Today, 2,191 (TWO THOUSAND, ONE HUNDRED, AND NINETY ONE)  males will be the victim of domestic violence.  Within this hour, 91 (ninety one) men will be the victims of domestic violence, within this minute, 1.5 men will be the victim of domestic violence.  

Today, there are 3 (THREE) DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SHELTERS FOR MEN in the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA  

 Today, 55 men will commit suicide (or be ruled to have committed suicide), more than two men an hour will have committed suicide, or their cases will have been ruled a suicide.   Suicide of all men is the EIGHTH LEADING CAUSE OF DEATH in the United States.  Homicide for Black men is the fifth leading cause of death in the United States.  Suicide for American Indians or Alaska Natives is the 6th leading cause of death.  Homicide is the 6th leading cause of death for Hispanic males in the United States.  

 One in six males will be the victim of sexual abuse by the time they are adults.   21% (twenty-one percent) of all victims of human trafficking are male. 18% of all human trafficking cases are forced labor cases.  Males make up the majority of the forced labor cases globally, while females are the main perpetrator of human trafficking.  

Infant males are murdered more often than infant females (18.5 deaths per 100,000 boys of the same age vs.14.7 deaths per 100,000 girls of the same age), most often by their biological mothers, or mother’s partner (not biological fathers).  

Today while society turns its back on male victims, every single second that ticks by, another male (child or adult) will die by unnatural means.    Almost sixty men today will reach the end of their ropes, while playing the system, and running through red tape, dying, and leaving behind scores of children who are being raised by a society that designs their failure by removing their fathers, and all men from society.  

 Today, one hundred and twenty plus children will become fatherless.  

Today over four thousand children will be witness to domestic violence perpetrated against their father or another man acting in the place of their father in their household, at the hands of their mother, or another female acting in the place of their mother.  

June is Domestic Violence Against Men Awareness Month, please take a moment to offer solace, to hear his side, to hear the children’s side before choosing her side over his…before fear mongering all men and shaming them into the outskirts of society, before laughing and shaming male victims of violence.  

 Today, IS tomorrow.  Today and each step you and I take, will determine what is written tomorrow.  Today, is here now, please do not waste it, do not break it, do not bend the truth today, to fit your version of truth tomorrow.  

 Tami Pepperman Victim/Child Advocate

tamikay23@hotmail.com

3651 Solokar Rd. Loon Lake, WA 99148

1-509-937-2478 (home)

1-509-936-1892 (cell)

 

references: http://www.cdc.gov/men/lcod/index.htm http://www.cdc.gov/women/lcod.htm   http://jimhopper.com/ http://1in6.org/   http://www.unodc.org/unodc/en/human-trafficking/global-report-on-trafficking-in-persons.html   http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cb/pubs/cm06/chapter4.htm#age *fatherless children statistics are based on the average daily suicide rate, as determined by the average family size, via the CIA https://www.cia.gov/ *children as witnesses to domestic violence is based on the average family size, as determined by the CIA https://www.cia.gov/

‘Gang rape’ woman admits she lied

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/england/lancashire/8082765.stm

Mom isn’t buying Atlanta rape victim’s claims

By Megan Mayyeucci The Atlanta Journal-Constitution June 05, 2009

Fannin County, Ga. — A 24-year-old who claims she was kidnapped from her Atlanta neighborhood and raped by a Snellville computer software engineer has spent her life lying to get attention, her family said Friday.
The stripper told police in Tennessee she was abducted while jogging May 26 and driven to the Smoky Mountains, where she was drugged and sexually assaulted.
But she didn’t tell her family about the attack, said the woman’s mother, Karin Tye-Carter, who doesn’t believe the rape claim.
“I know my daughter,” Tye-Carter, a truck driver, said Friday outside her Fannin County home. “She’s a pathological liar. She’s always been like this since growing up.”
Tye-Carter said her daughter told the family she was in Kentucky for a photo shoot.
The mother added that “this is not the first time” her daughter has claimed she’s been raped. “She’s my daughter and I love her,” the mother said, “but she does this all the time.”
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution does not identify alleged sexual assault victims. Tye-Carter and other family members do not share the alleged rape victim’s last name.
The woman has not returned multiple phone calls or e-mail requests from the AJC for comment.
David Jansen, 46, of Snellville faces charges in Sevier County, Tenn., of aggravated kidnapping and aggravated rape, and is out on $800,000 bond.
Jansen insists the sex with the woman was consensual and part of a bondage fantasy thought up by the alleged victim.
Tye-Carter said she doesn’t know Jansen, a married man and father of two, but believes him.
A polygraph administered by a retired FBI agent also showed Jansen was truthful when he told investigators the two engaged in consensual sex, according to court documents Jansen filed Thursday in Tennessee.
Tye-Carter said she last saw her daughter around Christmas. The mother and daughter got in a fight over what the mother called lies.
“We don’t jump when she hollers anymore,” she said.
The alleged victim is somewhat of an outcast in the family, which consists of six children, including three men in the military. One of her brothers is a retired Army officer- turned-Cobb County police officer, the mother said.
“When someone in the family gets more attention, she lies and does something crazy,” said her younger brother, Chvoniah “Bo” Henderson.
The Atlanta stripper’s troubles started when she was young, family members said. She spent time in and out of youth detention facilities and mental institutions, her mother said.
When she was 15, family members said the alleged victim set her uncle’s Locust Grove home on fire – while her mother and brother were asleep inside.
“I woke up smelling smoke and the bathroom was up in flames,” said Henderson, who heads to Marine Corps boot camp later this month. “That was her first arrest,” the brother said.
Several months later, she set fire to several trash cans inside an Early County church, causing damage throughout the building, Tye-Carter said.
“She wasn’t allowed in church without parents,” the mother said.
The alleged victim was placed in juvenile detention centers for both incidents, her mother said.
She also was sent to counseling after locking her younger sister in a closet, which she set on fire, Tye-Carter said. That was in addition to trying to drown her sister in a bathtub full of scalding water, Tye-Carter said. Each time, family members rescued the little sister.
As she grew older, doctors diagnosed the alleged victim with psychological problems and seizures, for which they prescribed medication, her mother said.
The woman attempted to get her life together, eventually obtaining an emergency medical technician’s license and firefighting certifications.
Her medical condition and criminal history, however, prevented her from obtaining a job, the mother said.
As an adult, the alleged victim was arrested twice for filing false assault reports, including an alleged rape behind a Woodstock Kohl’s and alleged stabbing in Fannin County.
“I came home and my daughter is sliced up on the sidewalk. I freaked out,” Tye-Carter said. “She said she was attacked at a convenience store.”
Family members later found the knife in the woods, which the woman confessed later to stabbing herself.
She pleaded guilty to filing false reports in both incidents, according to court records.
Twice, the woman married well-off businessmen in Atlanta. Her current husband, who filed for divorce in April, runs a restaurant inside the Atlanta nightclub Tattletale’s, Tye-Carter said. The woman is a stripper at Tattletale’s.
Tye-Carter said she suspects her daughter “latched on” to Jansen when her husband said he wanted to leave her.
Jansen’s attorney said the two met at Tattletale’s and were having an affair for about a year.
The woman sent Jansen a text message in April saying she was getting a divorce, according to court records filed by Jansen’s attorney on Thursday.
Jansen, 46, claims he has spent thousands of dollars on the woman, including money at the strip club, laser surgery, car repairs and dinners, according to credit card receipts and court records.
Attention and money seem to attract the alleged victim, her family said. When that attention stops, something always happens, they said.
“You keep crying and crying wolf, when you need something, they won’t believe it,” said Ray Carter, the alleged victim’s stepfather. “This is the first we’ve heard of [the alleged abduction and rape]. So I doubt it happened.”
Jansen is scheduled to appear in court in Sevier County July 17. He asked for the charges to be dismissed. Since his arrest, Jansen’s wife also has filed for divorce

http://www.ajc.com/metro/content/metro/gwinnett/stories/2009/06/05/rape_victi…

From F.R.A.M.E.D.

F.R.A.M.E.D. (Family Rights And Many Ending Discrimination)

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Hey Non-Custodial Fathers Out There!

Are your kids safe with the ex’s boyfriend or their step-dad????

Father/stepfather raped 2 teenage stepdaughters, getting one pregnant; mother charged for felony failure to protect
Victorville, California — Long-haul truck driver and registered sex offender Tony Slone sexually abused his 13- and 16-year-old stepdaughters over a period of four years; the elder daughter now has 13-month-old she says is his. His stupid wife, the girls’ mother, Anita Slone, let him take the girls on trips. http://www.mercurynews.com/news/ci_12528826

Babysitting boyfriend gets slap on wrist for killing 8-month-old by withholding medical attention
Miami, Florida — James Boomer was holding a pot of scalding water when he tripped and it dumped on the baby. So he put her in a baby swing and did nothing until the mother returned home from work… too late. http://www.kctv5.com/news/19660868/detail.html

Babysitting boyfriend murdered toddler; mother charged with felony accessory after the fact
Memphis, Tennessee — Antonio Starks was watching the child while Nekela Oliver was at work. http://www.wreg.com/wreg-nekela-oliver-in-court,0,4991115.story

Boyfriend broke toddler’s bones, burned her with cigarette
Nampa, Idaho — Mario J. Gonzalez faces up to 15 years for assaulting the 2-year-old girl. http://www.idahopress.com/news/?id=23772

Boyfriend killed his girlfriend’s 2-year-old toddler
Coshocton, Ohio — Aaron Holdsworth strangled the little girl and inflicted blunt force trauma to her head. http://www.10tv.com/live/content/local/stories/2009/06/04/story_baby.html?sid=102
Rising cases of child abuse are blamed on economy, mothers’ boyfriends, stress
Missoula, Montana — Shelters are turning people away. http://www.newwest.net/city/article/rising_child_abuse_fills_shelter_leaves_kids_with_no_haven/C8/L8/
Boyfriend is raped and beaten while in jail on charges of molesting girlfriend’s two infants; family says police should be investigating the babies’ father
Jacksonville, Texas — Classic inmate justice. Man in question is the boyfriend. His family says biodad abused the children. Mother also was arrested for child endangerment. http://www.jacksonvilleprogress.com/local/local_story_152231952.html

Stepather to be executed by lethal injection today for the 2001 slayings of 5 family members
Huntsville, Texas — Family man Terry Lee Hankins first murdered his own father and half-sister, then some time later, his wife, and her 11- and 12-year-old children. He blamed his divorced “inattentive” father and his two stepmothers who he said (both) molested him as a child for his adult behavior decades later. http://www.chron.com/disp/story.mpl/ap/tx/6452491.html

Boyfriend charged with murder and torture of 2-year-old; mother also charged
Corona, California — Live-in boyfriend Naresh “Michael” Narine did it. Mother Malachi Magana also was arrested on suspicion of child abuse and covering for him. http://www.pe.com/localnews/inland/stories/PE_News_Local_S_slay13.3b682f3.html

Stepfather put 7-year-old in suitcase outside on porch and threatened to throw 8-year-old down the stairs
Wheeling, West Virginia — Brian Maxwell McKinley aka George McKinley admitted he did it, and got his felony charges reduced to misdemeanors. He also had been accused accused of having sexual contact with a child, attempting to burn a child, putting a child in a stove and holding a child’s head under water. http://www.news-register.net/page/content.detail/id/523727.html?nav=510

Another abusive boyfriend kills his girlfriend’s toddler
Lafayette, Tennessee — Thomas A. Dexter abused all of the children, and this week killed the 3-year-old, smacking, spanking, throwing, slamming her while he was babysitting, and/or bathing her, and/or who-knows-what. At any rate, she’s now dead, of the usual “blunt force trauma”. http://www.indystar.com/article/20090506/NEWS/90506060

Boyfriend held baby by the leg and then slammed him around into furniture
Bradford County, Florida — Asshole Ryan Stanton Wesson was left alone with his girlfriend’s 8-month-old, and got irritated or something because the baby spit up. http://www.jacksonville.com/news/metro/crime/2009-05-06/story/bradford_man_ch…

Boyfriend (of sorts) murders infant by throwing him out car window into interstate highway
Tampa, Florida — The media reports that monster Richard Anthony McTear Jr. is not the baby’s father. Note that this baby might be alive today if two years ago, the state had not dropped felony dv charges. Another sheriff is quoted commenting on the “tragedy”. (Please look up the definition of this word, people. It’s not a synonym for “outrage”. These cases are not “tragedies”.) http://www2.tbo.com/content/2009/may/05/051143/baby-found-dead-side-i-275/new…

Mother charged with boyfriend’s beating death of her 10-month-old daughter
Syracuse, New York — Cherron Patterson, 18, let her 16-year-old live-in boyfriend, Anthony Weakfall Jr., the father of a subsequent baby (yes), repeatedly abuse the first infant. http:/
/www.newsday.com/news/local/wire/newyork/ny-bc-ny–toddlerkilled0422apr…

Another boyfriend kills a baby
Will County, Illinois — The girlfriend or fiance of Lee K. Ponshe had moved in with her 18-month-old child three days before. The child died from the ubiquitous “blunt force trauma” to the head. http://www.myjournalcourier.com/news/million_22172___article.html/bond_set.htmlh

Stepfather beat 18-month-old to death because he spilled food on the carpet
Fort Worth, Texas — “The boy’s mother “denies having anything to do with corporal punishment of her child.'” http://www.star-telegram.com/metro_news/story/1324334.html

Mother and her boyfriend accused of staging fake kidnapping of herself and 17-year-old son
Miami, Florida — The FBI says that Alejandra Arriaza and her boyfriend faked the abduction in a Walmart parking lot in order to extort money out of her ex-husband. http://www.miamiherald.com/news/miami-dade/story/1000238.html

Mother is on trial for death of toddler; it happened when her abusive boyfriend was visiting
Deseret, Utah — Alejandro Lucero is on trial for murder of her toddler when she was 17. Sergio Martinez-Gonzales, 26 at the time, and the unwed illegal immigrant father of her younger twin babies, was in the house. Witnesses saw him on an earlier occasion physically assault the mother as she tried to escape, yelling ‘Help me! Help me! He’s going to kill me!’. http://www.deseretnews.com/article/705297281/Trial-under-way-in-slaying-of-2-…

Babysitting boyfriend leaves toddlers unattended; mother also arrested and charged
Thibodaux, Louisiana — They were both charged with desertion for leaving the 2- and 3-year-olds in the house while being at the mother’s place of employment, a strip club. Boyfriend Jeremy Compton admitted that he was supposed to be watching them. The children were placed with their biological father. http://www.dailycomet.com/article/20090408/HURBLOG/904089876/1223?Title=Two-a…

Boyfriend accused of killing 1-year-old says mother did it
Covington, Kentucky — Edward Aaron Combs faces life imprisonment if convicted of the beating death; it took the infant three days to die. The baby’s mother, Tristan Bowman, already has pled to a failure to protect charge. He says she is a drug addict. She (a nurse), said she was afraid of what the doctors would say about the injuries. The D.A. points out that there was no abuse until Combs starting dating the mother. http://news.cincinnati.com/article/20090407/NEWS0103/904080327

Boyfriend convicted of child abuse but acquitted of rape
Liberty Township, Ohio — James A. Fitzhugh will serve 13 years in prison for his disgusting behavior that horribly injured a baby girl. http://www.middletownjournal.com/hp/content/oh/story/news/local/2009/04/08/hj…

Boyfriend beats 9-year-old to death; years of reports but no findings from DYF
Camden, New Jersey — Vincent Williams beat and terrorized little Jamarr Cruz for years; police were to the house multiple times because of his abuse of the boy and his mother, as well as other crimes. The Department of Youth and Family Services made no findings. Child finally dead. http://www.philly.com/dailynews/local/20090404_Camden_boy__9__terrorized_by_beatings_dies.html

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